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I am always available for inquiries and will let you know my availability and what timeframe works for me. See my links page for my current priorities.
Work With Me
I work with companies to publicly review products on my blog, test products with private feedback, and write sponsored blog posts. I share my reviews on Bluesky and an active Discord server for collectors. I additionally make at least one post on social media featuring the product when I receive it. Bluesky is currently my primary social media platform.
All posts include my own honest opinions and relevant disclaimers. My primary goal is to offer information to my readers, not to advertise. All links related to business/review/affiliate agreements will be marked as nofollow/sponsored.
Blog post reviews:
I write a review in exchange for a copy of the product. If I am not part of the brand’s affiliate program, I may also charge a fee of $50-200 per article depending on product value, number of products being reviewed, and/or my interest in the product. I communicate with brands regarding my preferences (size, shape, texture, firmness) to ensure that I receive a product with a good chance of positive feedback based on my personal tastes. (If I already own the product, I already plan to review it someday, but can accept a fee to prioritize it and add it to my active queue. )
If multiple products are involved, these may be reviewed in the same article or separate articles at my discretion or per an agreement. Multi-product review posts will only involve related items from the same brand/company/retailer, like in this post, unless otherwise agreed upon in advance.
I approach reviews with the perspective that what doesn’t work for me may still work for others. My reviews tend not to label toys as good vs. bad, but rather provide information about my experience to help readers make an informed decision.
Single-brand review posts will not include outgoing links to competing products, but will include internal links to other posts on my blog, may include comparisons to other products that I own, and may include mentions of products from other brands.
Products:
I am willing to review or otherwise write about sex toys, products related to sex toys, and products sold alongside sex toys. My focus is indie or fantasy sex toys made from platinum cure silicone. I have limited space, so I am unlikely to accept arrangements with larger items such as sex furniture. I have limited interest in vibrators and white-label products.
Social media promos:
I share a product, make a thread regarding my first impressions, or otherwise showcase a product on Bluesky while engaging with my audience. This is a great option if the product is small or if you want the product to be highlighted much sooner than my review wait time. When I am unavailable for standard reviews, this option is often available. We can discuss fees and the number of posts expected. Fees may be waived if I have joined your affiliate program and you provide the product.
Sponsored blog posts:
I may accept payment for a blog post that is not centered around reviews but rather a topic instead, either toy-related or adjacent (such as writing about furries or erotic fanfiction), with a link to the site sponsoring the post. $100-250 depending on topic and word count. I will be picky with this since I prioritize reviews.